You Just Found Out You Were Served Divorce Papers, Now What?

For some people the most shocking or earth shaking thing can be being served divorce papers.  For others, it can be a relief.  Whichever category you fall into, you need to make certain that you read the papers carefully.  Every divorce Petition comes with a Summons.  The summons will tell you that you need to respond within 21 days of being served and if you don't the judge can enter a judgment against you.

What is a divorce petition and how can it effect me?

The divorce petition contains many important parts.  In general there are 7 basic parts.  These are:

1. The statement of Jurisdiction
2. Information about the marriage
3. Information about the kids, if there are any
4. The grounds for divorce
5. The custody and support of the children
6. The division of the property
7. The division of the debt

A divorce petition is essentially a request of how you want the property and the debt divided and what you want the custody and visitation to look like.  If you don't respond to the divorce petition within the 21 days, the opposing party can take a default against you and get exactly what they asked for.  If you want something different or you believe that the other party has left out important things, it is essential that you respond.

How do you respond to a divorce Petition and do you need a lawyer?

The court requires that you file certain uniform paperwork and pay your filing fee.  Some people can get a divorce on their own without the help of a divorce attorney.  The biggest issue folks run into is that the paperwork that is used, while uniform, can and usually does need to contain certain language and certain terms in order for the person getting a divorce not to compromise their position.  The paperwork can be confusing and believe me, there is a lot of paperwork.  You also need to make sure that you comply with the proper rules when you file the paperwork.  Lastly, a divorce isn't just the language that is in the petition and the answer.  There is always a lot of negotiation going on between the divorce attorneys trying to get the best conditions and outcomes for their clients.

What should I expect the time frame for a divorce to be?

There is no cut and dry time frame for a divorce to be completed.  If the divorce is uncontested and the parties stipulate to the outcome, it can be done in as little as 4-6 weeks.  Other divorces seem to go on and on, stretching into years.  It goes without saying that the quick divorce happens because the parties agree.  The long divorce linger on generally because of high conflict.  Often the high conflict centers around the children.

How do I get an attorney to take my case?

It all starts with a phone call.  Whether you are responding to a divorce petition or you are the party initiating the divorce.  Give our office a call at (208) 472-2383 and one of our divorce lawyers will provide you with a free consultation.  We will answer your questions and outline the process for you.  Give us a call.  You will be glad you did.  Visit us on the web.